November 25-1 1120

Yesterday was a great day. Thanksgiving has a whole new meaning for all of us. We had Roger and Nic M. over, and had a venison roast, and a fried turkey in addition to the traditional holiday fare. We all sat and laughed, happily taking in the good fortune that is part of most of our lives. I would sit, watching the boys kidding around, and playing video games, feeling waves of contentment wash over me like a warm ocean tide. As difficult as this year has been, and with much work still remaining, we will manage with great style because we have each other.

November 20-1 0800

As we prepare for the upcoming holiday, I would be remiss in my acknowledgment of all I'm grateful for, if I forget those who meant so much to us during the hardest times of our ordeal. Thank you to all who followed, and continue to follow Tyler's courageous journey back from the edge (hey, what a great title for the book). Without all your prayers and support, I don't know what would have happened. Josh will be home Tuesday night, and then our home will be complete, let the celebration of thanks continue, as gratitude is something we should be cognizant of every day. Ty continues working hard in school, and will be continuing various therapies through our school district. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, hug your children, honor your parents, value your friends, and give your loving pets a treat.

November 12-1 1835

As promised, new pix.
Capone and his best buddy.

Tyler's personal protection detail on guard during the storm and 9 1/2 day power outage.

A little doggy love goes a long way.

Tyler's tribute to the Lakota nation. The 4 spiritual direction colors with Tyler's spirit animal's paw (the bear) symbolically supporting him, with the Lakota crossed peace pipes inset.

We put this sign across from the accident site at the entrance of Salmon Brook Park, for the 225th anniversary celebration for the town of Granby.

November 10-1 0750

Tyler continues to work hard at school, and the myriad of clubs which he belongs. He may on occasion be over-taxing himself, but it's difficult to see his drive to normalcy and attempt to restrain him. He is looking at colleges, and is interested in the Boston and Worcester areas and possibly Hobart (NY state). Ty's formal therapies have ended at the hospital, and will be continued through our town school services. As far as he has travelled, there is still more to go. We finally got our power back 9 days after the early season Nor'easter. We survived with no trouble, and actually had fun. Tyler's tattoo came out great, and I'll have pictures of this and more as soon as I can find the cable attachment for our camera. We are anxiously awaiting Thanksgiving (my favorite holiday), especially having my 2 guys under the same roof, at home together.
Also, if anyone knows a publisher (for Tyler's story), please contact me.

October 26-1 0635

Update:
Tyler is doing well in school, and we've started looking at colleges (still a long way to go though). Tomorrow Ty is going to get a tattoo commemorating the Lakota Nation. It will be a bear paw (his spirit animal), surrounded by the colors of the healing medicine wheel, with crossed peace pipes (symbol of the Lakotas) inset on the paw. The tattoo will be over his left shoulder as if it were supporting, and urging him forward.
Josh had his physical waiver for his scholarship approved and finalized. Full 4 year ride to Rensselaer Polytech. Wahoo lieutenant Pollock.

October 16-1 1200

Tyler continues to work hard in school as well as therapy, and our audience is as diverse as ever. Thank you.

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October 10-1 1000

Update:
Tyler's vision has returned to pre-accident levels.

October 9-1 0900

Through this journey we made many new friends while renewing many old acquaintances. It's true, we as humans are at our best when things are their worst. All of you have been the absolute best. Along the way the blog averaged over 250 views per day, for more than 103,00 total views from 20+ different countries, and earned over $300. During this trying time, all our friends and extended family were integral in Ty's recovery, and the maintenance of our faith and sanity. Never could we express the words "Thank You" with more love and sincerity.
Ease on down, Ease on down the road.
"The Wiz"
Any questions or comments:
sethpollock@ymail.com

October 8-1 0900

Tyler at Grammy's

Grammy and Marty

Josh, home from RPI, with one of his biggest fans (Capone).

The family (Tyler as photographer).

It is wonderful having both boys around, Josh is integrating into college life tremendously well. All things with a beginning, by definition, must have an end. As this blog must as well. As informative, and expository as this endeavor was, it was, for me at least, cathartic and therapeutic. Without this literary exercise, I'm not sure I would have been able to maintain any semblance of sanity throughout the most difficult times of this ordeal. The constant love , prayer and support from everyone has given my usually cynical nature a fresh blast of nourishment regarding the nature of mankind. During this ordeal (yet, not complete) We have been bolstered by the constant love and prayers of all our extended family. This all still seems like I'm watching through someone else's eyes, I can't imagine a more surreal or emotionally draining event, nor do I wish to. There are so many gifts, cards and prayers that should have been thanked individually, yet weren't, I hope you will forgive us. Tyler is on the road to recovery, that is certain. The time required and the extent of that recovery is still the question. Yet with continued faith and work, we are confident of a great outcome.

Thank You very much for all the prayers and support!

Tyler: If there are any thoughts that I will be continuing this journey without all of you, this is false. I feel all the children of the earth take this journey together and especially all who have been such a big part of my recovery with your many prayers and wishes, will continue this journey with me. A simple, yet heartfelt thanks to everyone. We'll see you on the path.

October 7-1 0750

Tomorrow will be the last formal/daily entry for the Blog. I will from time to time relay significant news, or important updates. Tyler feels he is doing well enough not to be such a center of attention. He is a bright, caring, and modest young man whom I am overwhelmingly proud to call my son. Even though, through sheer will and determination, his progress has been nothing short of miraculous, he still has a long journey ahead. We are both excited about Josh's return for the weekend in a mere 7 hours and 56 minutes. We are planning a nice weekend with much laughing and fun. I can't wait to have my 2 boys under the same roof again, the house will feel complete.

October 6-1 0645

Tyler had a busy day yesterday at therapy, then an evening Youth Action Committee (YAC) meeting. When he got home I was already in bed. He is one tough, motivated kid. School is going well for Ty, and he is looking at taking Physics next semester. We are working with the school to arrange a tutor to assist him with this and other challenging courses.
It has come to my attention that Tyler, in his humble way would like to see the Blog come to an end. Being at least integrated into his previous life, he has a desire for privacy, and some closure. I think the Blog hearkens back to more difficult and scary times Tyler would prefer putting behind him. I will finish out this week, and then close down the operation out of deference and respect for Ty's wishes.

Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning.
-Winston Churchill

October 5-1 0800

Off to school then therapy. I can tell Tyler is getting impatient, wondering when the therapy will no longer be needed. All I can do is encourage patience and perseverance. He is still focused and doing well socially, and in school. He has been adopted by the X-Country team and was once again invited to their pre-meet dinner last night. It's heartening to see how many wonderful friends are behind him.

October 4-1 0725

Diva pining away for Josh's return.

Tyler performing the doggy mind meld on Capone.

The day begins with a champions breakfast of chili over pasta. I'm glad I wont be sitting next to Tyler in class. So far Ty is keeping up with his class work with the assistance of the various modifications in place to aid in his success. After school there's a short break , then I'm taking the lad to aqua and speech therapy and Grammy's bringing him back.

3 days, 8 hours, 30 minutes until Josh come home.

October 3-2 1330

Tyler and Nic approaching Nirvana (GameStop computer game store).
Saturday when Tyler, Nic and I went for a ride, we stopped here, and it deserved to be immortalized. Rarely do you see teenage boys happier than when they're entering GameStop.
Tyler has Drama Club after school, then Robotics Team at 1900. Our only concern is he doesn't push himself too hard.

October 3-1 0800

Yesterday was a hoot. A restful, fun day. I feel bad, Jamie came by to play Risk, but missed the photo op. The week begins anew. Therapy Tues and Wed, with the highlight of the week being the prodigal son returning on Fri. I will be picking up Josh and his girlfriend Jessie Friday afternoon, and Josh will be home until the 10th. We all miss him... He misses the dogs.

October 2-3 1320

The gang, focused on world domination.

Tyler has Nic, Tom, and Andrew over to play Risk. The non-electric, non-computer, and completely un-digital game board version. Ty and I went to the "Y" for a workout, then Stop and Shop for snacks and drinks for the gang. My heart soars at seeing Tyler and some of his buddies laughing, kidding, and having a great time with the simpler things in life. I can't help but think how different things could have been but for the grace of G-d. I feel an immense joy and contentment seeing the simple things we as parents often take for granted.

Random thoughts

After spending a great day with Tyler, I was inspired to put down these thoughts:
There still is beauty and wonder in the world, more likely, it never left, it was just overwhelmed by other horrors and frustrations. Watching the fireworks for our town’s 225th birthday was inspiring. There is a moment of anticipation between the launch of the rocket, and its ultimate Technicolor explosion which is palpable. That is the heart tingling joy of the young and innocent which the rest of us are privy to for a short moment in time. These are the little things in life which remind us of the times of youthful joy and exuberance which, in times gone by, were numerous, and almost taken for granted. It is these moments which help renew our confidence in good, our determination to persevere, and restore our waning faith. It is a moment of happy reflection and uplifting whimsy. A time, however short, we all are kids again, and all seems right with the world.

October 2-1 0800

Tyler and Bob at Salmon Brook Park

The Ancient Mariners in the parade with cool firing cannon.

The sign outside Salmon Brook Park in gratitude to this wonderful town.

Tyler went shopping with friends, then we went back to Salmon Brook Park for the fireworks display. Everyone was mesmerized and amazed at the scope and quality of the fireworks. The organizers of the 225th Birthday event deserve tremendous praise for their magnificent efforts.

I have been a bit shy on pictures lately, but that's about to change (minor technical difficulties and a non technical operator).

October 1-2 1400

What a great event. The parade was terrific with music, floats, and town organizations represented. After the parade the park was the center of tremendous activity. There were many food booths, organizations, business represented, and carnival rides. The festivities will continue into the evening culminating in a fireworks display at 1900. We are currently home for a rest, and for Tyler to figure out his plans for later. So many people came up to us with hugs, handshakes, and well wishes. This town is truly a special place to live.

But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine.
-Thomas Jefferson

October 1-1 0950

Happy 225th birthday Granby, CT. After a nice breakfast at Dave's restaurant (Tyler paid, Holy crap), we went to the hardware store to get some sign making materials. Today our town is having a huge celebration (in the rain). Ty and I made a sign thanking the Town of Granby for all their support and placed it at the entrance to Salmon Brook Park, across from the location the accident occurred. Later we plan on swimming to the parade, then attending some of the festivities. This afternoon there's a chance Tyler and friends may go to the Big E. I just want to watch the UConn football game on TV.

I can express no kinder sign of loveThan this kind kiss. O Lord, that lends me life,Lend me a heart replete with thankfulness!For thou hast given me in this beauteous faceA world of earthly blessings to my soul,If sympathy of love unite our thoughts.
— William Shakespeare (1564-1616)

September 30-1 0800

After a nice dinner at New England Pizza, Linda dropped Ty off at home. The 2 of us caught up on the days activities, and discussed plans for this weekend (Granby's 225 Birthday Celebration, and the Big E). Today is school, a short rest, Drama Club this evening, and then G-d knows what. I long since abandoned trying to understand Tyler's social calendar.

September 29-2 1800

Tyler, Nic and I went for a ride earlier, and got some sushi for lunch. The boys hung out at Nic's this afternoon, and Tyler is going with his Mom for dinner. Ty has his drivers permit, and seeing all his contemporaries drive, makes him anxious to resume driver's training. However aware of the realities he may be, he is, once again, in a rush to resume his life. We, on the other hand, are insisting on moderation, appropriate timing, and baby steps. Tyler has had such patience so far, it's understandable that he would feel restless. All things in their time.


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life. ~Chinese Proverb

September 29-1 0930

Tyler had a good day in school, came home about 12:30, and we both took a little rest before heading over to Grammy and Marty's for dinner. Once again Grammy outdid herself. Brisket, chicken, roasted potatoes, desert, etc, etc... Tyler and I got a great care package to take home. Today, Ty and I have off from school, and plan on doing a bit of shopping and exercise at the "Y". I wasn't planning on going to synagogue, I figure if G-d doesn't know by now how grateful I am, he's deaf.

O Lord, who lends me life, lend me a heart replete with thankfulness.
~ William Shakespeare
I am most thankful to Almighty Providence for mercies received, and determined still to press the case into public notice as a token of gratitude.
~ William Banting

September 28-1 0630

Tyler's Occupational Therapy has ended, and the Speech Therapy will end next week, while the Physical Therapy is scheduled to continue for the foreseeable future. The OT and ST were discontinued not due in any way to the fact Tyler is cured, but rather, professional assistance isn't of any further necessity. He has been given exercises and tasks to practice, the rest is up to him. Therapy went well yesterday, and Ty was picked up at the hospital by Grammy and Marty, then we all met at JG's for dinner.
Tonight is Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year. I have never been more grateful to G-d for the blessings bestowed upon me than I am this year. Happy and healthy New Year to all.

(I'm not sure if this is a repeat quote, but it's very appropriate)
As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.
-John F. Kennedy

September 27-2 1031

He works so hard at therapy, school, and trying to regain his interrupted life. I am amazed at the resiliency of the young body, mind, and wonderfully loving soul. The doctors feel Tyler's recovery will peak at some point, what that will be is yet unknown. Once again the unknown is the most unsettling and frustrating. It is reminiscent of waiting for Tyler to awaken from the coma in order to see how much of him was in there. We were fortunate with that event. We can only pray our luck holds out, and Tyler is returned whole.

“Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air, but only for one second without hope”
-Unknown

PS

The blog has gone over 100,000 page views. Thanks again for every one's continued support.

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September27-1 0600

The MD's appointment went well, He is reducing one of his meds and the doctor say's Tyler is proceeding well with his recovery efforts. Later, PT was tiring, but productive. His OT and Speech Therapy may be concluding. Grammy picked Tyler up from Mt. Sinai, and we met at Cumby's. Ty and I came home for dinner, then he was off to the Drama Club meeting... I went to bed.

"The burden is equal to the horse's strength."
-The Talmud

September 26-1 0900

Gonna' be a busy day. I dropped Tyler off at school, where he will be picked up by Arnie and transported to his MD appointment at 10:00. Afterwards, he will hang around at the hospital for a bit, have lunch then begin therapy at 1:00. Grammy will pick Ty up and bring him home to Granby for dinner, and homework completion.

September 25-1 0740

From the horses mouth:
Yesterday I was out with some friends after the Labyrinth, and bought some pirate ships (part of a game). After, we all went to Jen's house for video games and merriment. I then came home, ate some chili and went to bed. I had a great time.

Remember to play after every storm
-Mattie Stepaneck

September 24-1 2145

Tyler stayed over Nic's place last night. eating and playing video games. This morning. Linda picked him up and they had lunch. This afternoon there was the healing ceremony in the Granby Labyrinth which Ty says was very cool. At the ceremony he hung out with friends and is spending the evening with them at another friends house playing "Super Smash Brothers". Soon, Tyler will need a social secretary.

“True friendship is seen through the heart, not through the eyes.”
-Unknown

September 23-1 0800

Tyler got his 1st AP Psych test back, and the results are very good. I won't go into detail as to not embarrass the kid, but It seems there is little to no reason to worry, so far, academically. We are keeping close tabs on him academically, as we have always try to do in the past, but with the modifications to his academic structure, there are people helping us with this responsibility. Bottom line... he is doing very well, and striving to fit in where he left off last May.

September 22-1 0615

Off to school then therapy. The other day Tyler called Larry Fiddler (our friend at the Lakota Nation), he was delighted to hear from him, and was happy we are planning a trip to visit in April. This will be a wonderful experience for all. I am still elated at the remarkable connection between Larry and Tyler. They both are truly kindred spirits. The kindness Larry has extended towards all of us is uplifting beyond words.

“It is by chance that we met, by choice that we became friends.”
-Unknown

September 21-1 0750

Tyler's therapists say he is doing very well. However, for the people who knew him before the injury, it is apparent how far he still has to go. With the absolute outcome still something in question, there is a great deal of stress and frustration on everyone's part. School is going well for Ty, he had a quiz and a test so far this week, and he feels very confident in both results.

September 20-1 1030

School, then afternoon therapy. Ty is still dependent on medications to maintain the status quo even though he has been weened off one evening pill. There were auditions for the December play A Christmas Carol last night. Tyler is on the lighting crew, but went to check out the talent, and see some buddies.

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one”
-C.S. Lewis

September 19-1 0800

With events proceeding at a predictable and snail like pace, it has been suggested, the time has come to shut down the blog. Tyler is doing well at school, and working diligently at his therapies. He has been blessed with the type of wonderful friends who have picked up right where he left off. I'm thinking of keeping the blog, and just added notice as events dictate. This doesn't mean Tyler's journey is over, far from it. He has a long way to go, and no guarantee of the ultimate results when he gets there. Regardless of the blog, please keep the positive vibes and prayers coming. Your constant and continued support has inspired us all.

P.S.
Does anyone know a publisher interested in a great story?

September 18-1 0930

Tyler had a very busy day yesterday. He hung around with friends all day, building a robotic arm, eating, and shopping. Ty is on the robotics team at school, and may be one of the captains this year. He is truly grateful for his friends, and the opportunity to be them.

“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”
- Tennessee Williams

September 17-1 0915

Events have, to some degree, stabilized into a comfortable routine. Tyler is doing well in school and has therapy twice a week on various afternoons. His friends are as wonderful and goofy as ever, for which Tyler is immensely grateful. Understandably, Ty is in a hurry to resume all aspects of his former life, and yet, in many ways is reminded of the severity of his injuries, and the time and effort needed to heal. All his therapists are very impressed with his progress, and optimistic regarding his level of recovery.

“Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul.”
-Douglas MacArthur

September 16-1 0900

Busy morning. Tyler's club meeting went well yesterday afternoon, and today after school he has therapy. Grammy is helping out by bringing Ty home. She and Marty are returning to FL in October, we will all miss them.

September 15-1 10000

School is progressing, as we had a meeting with various personnel this morning. Ty is working on his organizational skills, and study habits, which are doing well. He has a Horticulture Club meeting today, then it's home to help with chores.

September 14-2 1840

Tyler had a good day in school, and is out to dinner with his Mom. The school part of his recovery seems be be going well, the social aspect with all it's unpredictable personalities, and teenage "stuff" is a challenge as it is, or was, for everyone. All part of the great adventure of life.

Thanks to Will Rogers, and Bob and Bill who forwarded this to me.
1. Never slap a man who's chewing tobacco.
2. Never kick a cow chip on a hot day.
3. There are two theories to arguing with a woman.
Neither works.
4. Never miss a good chance to shut up.
5. Always drink upstream from the herd.
6. If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.
7. The quickest way to double your money is to fold it
and put it back into your pocket.
8. There are three kinds of men:
The ones that learn by reading.
The few who learn by observation.
The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence
and find out for themselves.
9. Good judgment comes from experience and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.
10. If you're riding' ahead of the herd, take a look back every now and then
to make sure it's still there.
11. Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier'n puttin' it back.
12. After eating an entire bull, a mountain lion felt so good he started roaring.
He kept it up until a hunter came along and shot him.
The moral: When you're full of bull, keep your mouth shut.
ABOUT GROWING OLDER...
First ~Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying
about your age and start bragging about it.
Second ~ The older we get, the fewer things seem worth waiting in line for.
Third ~ Some people try to turn back their odometers.
Not me; I want people to know 'why' I look this way.
I've traveled a long way, and some of the roads weren't paved.
Fourth ~ When you are dissatisfied and would like to go back to youth,
think of Algebra.
Fifth ~ You know you are getting old when everything either dries up or leaks.
Sixth ~ I don't know how I got over the hill without getting to the top.
Seventh ~ One of the many things no one tells you about aging
is that it's such a nice change from being young.
Eighth ~ One must wait until evening to see how splendid the day has been.
Ninth ~ Being young is beautiful, but being old is comfortable.
Tenth ~ Long ago, when men cursed and beat the ground with sticks,
it was called witchcraft. Today it's called golf. And, finally ~ If you don't learn to laugh at trouble,
you won't have anything to laugh at when you're old.

September 14-1 0800

The therapy went very well yesterday with Tyler scoring tremendously on 2 tests. He had a short time at home after therapy to rest and do homework, then it was off to a team dinner as a guest of the Track Team. It is becoming more evident that it's going to be a challenge having Ty pace himself. His indomitable spirit wants him to go and do everything. Our job is now to help him exercise patience.

September 13-1 0800

It still seems, sometimes, that I view this great and horrific event through the eyes of someone else. As if transfixed, unable to look away, I'm viewing a grand movie unfolding before me. The events, however surreal, are at least revealing themselves slowly, and so far, in the best possible aspect. Tyler's attitude, focus, and great soul remain intact. He has therapy today and Thursday. As much of a dull routine as these may have become, Ty knows the necessity, and remains resolute in the best of outcomes.

"There is a way of losing that is finding. When soul overmasters sense. When the noble and divine self overcomes the lower self. When duty and honor and love--immortal things bid the mortal perish. It is only when a man supremely gives that he supremely finds."
— Joshua Lawrence Chamberlain

September 12-2 1730

The hectic pace of the recent past has , to some degree been replaced by a somewhat steady, constant routine. The changes and advancements for Tyler's recovery are happening at a slower, but steady pace now that he's well passed the acute phase of his injury, and earnestly into the rehabilitation phase. Ty is enjoying the mainstream with his friends, and likes his classes. Therapy is twice a week, and we will be supplementing that with trips to the "Y". Tyler went to Nic's after school, and is having dinner there before going to the Drama club meeting. He's going to need a social secretary soon.

“Many times a day I realize how much my own life is built upon the labors of my fellowmen, and how earnestly I must exert myself in order to give in return as much as I have received”
- Albert Einstein

September 12-1 0815

After our traditional stop at Cumby's for coffee, I dropped Ty off at school to commence his duties as front hall greeter. He is doing well mentally, and is a work in progress physically. He is able to function independently in every way, but will still require much therapy to regain all his physical abilities. Last week I had Tyler added to my YMCA membership, so we plan on hitting the pool and exercise room 3 times a week (hopefully).

Failure is not an option.
-Unknown

September 11-2 2040

Tyler and Linda took the dogs for a walk in McLean's Game Refuge,I did some chores and made chili. Ty and I were both tired when he got home and took a nap. When we awoke it was 6:40 PM. We both thought for a second that it was 6:40 AM, Monday morning, and we were late. We figured it out pretty quickly, and had a good laugh at that.

The more you find out about the world, the more opportunities there are to laugh at it.
-Bill Nye,

September 11-1 1130

Time is a unique and very relative concept. The disaster in NY was 10 years ago and feels like only yesterday. Yet Tyler's injury was 5 months ago and it seems like years. Ty got home a short time ago and said he had a nice evening at his Mom's. He's home long enough to eat, change clothes, and then take off to go visiting. He needs a social secretary.

Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.
-Mark Twain

September 10-1 0800

Tyler was over his friend Nic's last night, and will be with his Mom throughout the weekend. He was in rare form last night before he left, prompted by a substantial caffeine blast. He and I were doing our goofy word banter, and Ty was simply cracking me up. With Josh at school and Tyler away for the weekend, the house is very quiet. I'm getting work done, yet I'm glad to have the dogs around. Their snoring is good company.

“Sometimes only one person is missing and the whole world seems depopulated.”
-Alphonse de Lamartine

September 9-2 1800

The new class schedule went well, Tyler likes all his teachers. The afternoon Speech Therapy session was productive, and Ty feels like he's making progress. This weekend Ty will be with his Mom starting with dinner, then a sleepover at Nic's house. He loves being around his buddies.

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.”
-Unknown

September 9-1 0800

My alarm didn't go off this morning, so I flew around the house while Tyler patiently tapped his foot by the door. Just kidding, it wasn't too bad. everyone was on time. After school, Ty will be going to his Mom's place to stay the weekend

September 8-2 1740

School and PT, including aqua therapy went well today. I dropped Tyler of at the library on the way home, and he plans on getting Chinese food for dinner (General Tsaos... of course).

There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one's self.
- Benjamin Franklin

September 8-1 1000

After a stop at Cumby's for coffee, Tyler was off to school. He has a whole new enthusiasm and focus regarding his education. Perhaps this is understandable considering his circumstance, it's just ironic that it took getting hit by a car to fire an appreciation for school. Having some of his favorite teachers doesn't hurt either. The neurological exam was lengthy and tiring, the results will be forthcoming.

Education is not the filling of a pail,but the lighting of a fire.
-Wiliam Butler Yeats
Tell me and I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember. Involve me, and I'll understand.
-Native American Saying

September 7-1 0850

Tyler has the day off from school as he's with his Mom on his way to Gaylord Hospital for neurological testing. Then it, home for a short spell, then to His Mom's to doggy sit for Riley, Gabrielle's dog who isn't feeling very well.
P.S.
Happy birthday Gabrielle.

September 6-2 1600

School went well, with Tyler making a slight change in his schedule which enables him to have his toughest class earlier in the day, also to have class with Mr. Jarvis (one of the advisors on last years trip to the Lakota Nation, and a super person). Tomorrow Ty will be spending the day at Gaylord Hospital seeing the MD, and having some neurological testing. He says he would rather be in school.

The superior doctor prevents sickness; The mediocre doctor attends to impending sickness; The inferior doctor treats actual sickness;
-Chinese proverb

September 6-1 0630

We just went over the 95,000 page view mark for the blog. Thanks to all for your continued support.
Tyler is getting into the school routine, combined with the usual teenager lack of enthusiasm at the prospect of waking up early. So far he's been keeping up with all the work, and very happy seeing all his peeps.

A resolute determination is the truest wisdom."
-Napoleon I

September 5-3 1730

Tyler and I are making dinner. It's a calamari, clam, and vegetable sauce over angel hair pasta. We got various peppers and other veggies from the Lindeyer's, picked fresh from Holcomb Farm. The peppers included some questionably hot varieties, with which we weren't too familiar. Ty loves hot peppers and sauces, so he was tasked to try the mystery peppers. Two of them were warm to the taste, but very flavorful. The third must have been some form of Asian red hot pepper. It started Ty coughing, laughing, eyes watering and sent me running to the refrigerator for the milk. We were both hysterical at the scene and also the prospect of the milk being sour. How horrible would that have been. It wasn't and we laughed our butts off.

I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose.
~Woody Allen

September 5-2 1300

It's an on and off weather day today. Tyler has gone for a walk with his Mom, and I'm going shopping. A relaxing day off, albeit not very exciting.

It is necessary to relax your muscles when you can. Relaxing your brain is fatal.
-Stirling Moss

September 5-1 0925

Thank you to Sue and Kelly for taking Tyler to see Wicked last night, he said it was terrific. It will be a quiet day, Ty and I are going to do some work around the house, then he has some homework to complete.

True silence is the rest of the mind; it is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment. ~William Penn

September 4-2 1840

I was helping our friend Bob with a project, while Tyler did some vacuuming and kitchen cleaning. Ty is off to see Wicked, and is really psyched.

September 4-1 0730

All's well after a good sleep. We plan on doing some work around the house, then Tyler is going to see Wicked at the Bushnell with Kelly and her Mom Sue.


“Beautiful music is the art of the prophets that can calm the agitations of the soul; it is one of the most magnificent and delightful presents God has given us”
- Martin Luther

September 3-4 2100

Tyler had a nice visit with his Mom and Gabrielle, now he's relaxing, chatting on Skype. I look at how far he's come, and marvel at his resiliency. Yet I'm all too aware at how far he has yet to go. It's been a mere 4 months, but feels like far more. I think I've aged 20 years as of late (and still counting).

Lord save us all from... a hope tree that has lost the faculty of putting out blossoms.
~Mark Twain

September 3-2 1640

A quiet day. I picked Tyler up at Nic's at noon, we did some house work, and took it easy. Tonight Ty is having dinner with his Mom, and tomorrow night he's going to a play in Hartford.


“Peace is not something you wish for; It's something you make, Something you do, Something you are, And something you give away.”
-Robert Fulghum

September 3-1 0800

We had some technical difficulties yesterday, but we're all set now. Yesterday was very busy for Tyler. He stayed after his classes to attend a meeting of the horticulture club. Then it was home for a quick stay, then off to Nic's house for a sleep over. Busy, busy guy.

Below if the majority of a notice regarding the upcoming fundraiser for Tyler. The actual brochure has photos and is formatted nicely. This was the best I could do with my limited computer skills. At least the info is there.


Tyler Pollock
Fundraiser

Saturday, September 24, 2011
Ongoing Event from 1PM-5PM
(Rain or Shine)

THE S.O.U.L. CENTER
14 Spring Glen Drive
Granby, CT 06035

Create a respectful and reverent healing ceremony using
prayer ties, labyrinth and fire pit.

Each person will make their own prayer ties*, which is a Native American symbol
for healing. You will then take your prayer tie into the labyrinth and maintain the healing intention for Tyler, as you walk toward the center where the energy is the
strongest. As you exit the labyrinth, put your prayer tie into the fire pit
where your prayers for Tyler will be sent upward.


*All ingredients will be provided for prayer ties. T-shirts will also be on sale to raise funds.



Suggested Donation - $20 (all proceeds go towards Tyler’s medical care)
Wear comfortable shoes and bring drinking water!


To send a donation, make check payable to: The Tyler Pollock Fund and mail to:
Tyler Pollock, c/o Windsor Federal Bank, 21 Hartford Avenue Granby, CT 06035-2308

(860) 653-4548

Contact info: Tina Angeli- (860)-653-3612 or Lisa Venn- (860)-712-3014

September 2-1 0730

After a good nights rest, Tyler decided to take the bus to school this morning. After his classes conclude around noon, he's going to stay in the media center, do his homework, and wait for the star of horticulture club. Ty is driven to reclaim his life, our job is to ensure he paces himself.

September 1-2 1240

The boy cracks me up. I picked him up from school where he was holding court with his peeps. We went to his bank do deposit the birthday loot, and he kept some out, and bought me lunch. It was the best Cumberland Farms Bratwurst I've ever had. School went well today with no homework, how can you beat that? His day isn't done. He will be taking a walk at 2:00 and cleaning the kitchen at 4:00.... welcome home.


If you aren't fired with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm.
-Vince Lombardi

September 1-1 0730

The Webster Dictionary definition of "Goofy teenager" has Tyler's picture in it. I left him at the HS this morning standing near the entry, coffee in hand, greeting all who enter. He is quite the "celeb". It's still apparent how far he has yet to go, but his present progress, and determination fill all who know him with confidence and hope. He revels being back in the middle of all his friends and classmates.


Hope never abandons you, you abandon it.
~George Weinberg

August 31-3 1930

A great dinner with Grammy and Marty at JG's in East Granby. Tyler is tired from a very busy day, with some school reading yet to do (AP psych). It's time to relax, watch the Sox game and call it a day.

Every year on your birthday, you get a chance to start new.
-Sammy Hagar
For my birthday I got a humidifier and a de-humidifier... I put them in the same room and let them fight it out. -Steven Wright

August 31-2 1540

Tyler's day at school went very well, his day ends at noon when Gabrielle picked him up to meet Linda and have lunch. Ty is on the way to PT, then home for a short rest, then a birthday dinner with Grammy, Marty, and I. Tyler will sleep well tonight.

Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age. Sometimes age just shows up all by itself.
- Tom Wilson

August 31-1 0830

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO TYLER, 17 years old. In honor of his birthday I dropped him off for his first day back at school. I also used his phone to take pictures which caused him to blush a bit. I think he's truly excited about being back in the mainstream with all his peeps.

August 30-3 1730

A little dinner, a bit of dessert, clean up and relax, all in preparation for the 1st day of school. I told Tyler I would be dropping him off and taking pictures, like the day he got on the bus for Kindergarten.

"If I keep a green bough in my heart, the singing bird will come."
-Chinese Proverb

August 30-2 1150

I asked if Tyler was apprehensive regarding his return to school, he said he's more concerned being under-challenged. He wanted to take an AP Calculus class instead of the regular Calculus class. We chatted, and he understands the logic in having his schedule set the way it is. Fortunately, Tyler had completed most of his graduation requirements in the previous 3 years (smart guy). Therefore it's a matter of completing a few credits, then walking across the stage in June.


All anyone asks for is a chance to work with pride.
-W. Edwards Deming

August 30-1 0800

I had planned for a final update before bed last night, but upon returning from dinner, the cable, and Internet were down again. electricity is such a fickle mistress. Dinner was great at Grammy and Marty's place. On the way home we stopped and got a few school supplies (why wait until the last minute, when the last second will do just fine), and received an announcement that due to the effects of the hurricane, Granby schools would open on Wednesday not Tuesday. Oddly enough Tyler's birthday is Wednesday, and he couldn't be more thrilled (said sarcastically). After school, Ty has therapy then a visit with his Mom, and finally dinner with me , Grammy, and Marty. The type of birthday any young man dreams of.

Having a birthday, whatever the age , beats the alternative.
-Me

August 29-2 1530

Tyler has a good Pt session, but the therapist was curious as to why Ty was so tired. He stated the previous therapist tired him out. This excuse worked until I ratted him out. Last night Ty stayed up way too late at his sleep over. The therapist gave him a huge, but good natured ration of crap for that. We are at Grammy and Marty's waiting for the Mah Jong game to end, and the dinner prep to begin. School starts in 15 hours and 40 minutes... Ty is thrilled (said sarcastically).

August 29-1 0950

We survived Hurricane Irene with apparent ease. In the words of Tyler "What a wimpy hurricane". Not to dismiss the terrible effects felt elsewhere, but here it was more hype than hurricane. Ty and I ate out yesterday as we lost power for about 24 hours. Last night he slept over buddy Jamie's house, where he, Nick, and Jamie (The 3 Musketeers... or Stooges, your choice), had a blast, and certainly got minimal sleep. Tyler has PT today, then we have an invitation to Grammy and Marty's place for dinner. Tomorrow school starts for Ty, and a whole new part of recovery as well.


“Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.”
- Bill Cosby

August 28

Service interrupted due to "The End Of The World".

August 27-1 1420

Today was a busy time getting ready for the end of the world. Tyler was helping prepare flashlights and lanterns. His primary mission was ensuring the Internet was still operational by playing online games and
IM- ing friends. The trick is, as always, not to panic regardless of what the media wants us to do. Ty is doing well today, and his PT sessions went well yesterday. After we weather the pending storm, the next big milestone is the start of school on Tuesday.

August 26-1 0800

Tyler had a good night sleep and is cleaning the kitchen and watching Castaway, multitasking. Therapy is 1:00 today, and I'm going to an outdoor concert in Windsor tonight... a touch of normalcy.

A person however learned and qualified in his life's work in whom gratitude is absent, is devoid of that beauty of character which makes personality fragrant.
-Hazrat Inayat Khan

August 24-4 1920

We had some time for thoughtful reflection. Tyler's ability to compartmentalize things and, overall, accept what's happened and deal effectively with it, is amazing to me. The theories of random events and chance are mind numbing to consider. You can stack the table a mile high with the "what ifs" of this situation, and it still wouldn't change the reality, and that's what Tyler is determined to accept and overcome. Today was one of those rainy days where it's nice to relax and take care of computer work etc... Capone rarely leaves Tyler's side and loves having him home. Diva sleeps in her little cave under the desk and comes out for the occasional scratch behind the ear or snack. Josh is settling in very well at Rennselaer, and seems to have lucked out in the world wide roommate lottery. It's going to be an early bedtime for all, and then we must prepare for the end of the world hurricane, at least that's the impression TV is giving

August 24-3 1540

The meeting at Granby Memorial HS.

First time back, check out the angelic lighting.

Returning, coffee in hand.

The T-Shirt on sale as a fund raiser. Tyler's Home

( Hide your daughters and food)

A quiet, restful afternoon so I thought I'd catch everyone up on some pictures.

August 25-1 0800

Tyler is relaxing over Nic's house today while I have meetings and get ready for the start of the new semester. Ty is looking forward to blending back into teenage life. We constantly have to remind him to not rush things. He is anxious to resume his life, and sometimes forgets his recovery will require patience.

August 24-2 1940

The meeting with the High School went famously. Everyone there is committed to Tyler's success. We are able to integrate his therapy with his course work with the ultimate goal of graduation in June. The therapists at the hospital are working with us to integrate Ty's healing with his schooling. Anyways, Ty is with his buddies at the movies, and sleeping over Nic's place so I can go to meetings tomorrow AM.

August 24-1 0830

Ty got a good night sleep, and is raring to go today. We are preparing for our meeting at the High School, then Tyler will have lunch with Grammy and Marty, then go to therapy. I'll be picking him up after my meetings at LCNE. By then Ty should be tuckered out. The boys are talking via Skype, I'm sure this lessens the anxiety on every ones part.

August 23-3 1915

Holy Cow... Tyler and I just ate ourselves into a food coma (much better than most other kinds). Thank you Hauser family from the bottom of our hearts (or stomachs). We were the lucky recipients of a delicious brisket, and a mound of mashed potatoes. Now Tyler is in computer land relaxing. We had a big day, with a great deal of walking, and Tyler held up very well.

The Constitution only guarantees the American people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself.
~Benjamin Franklin

August 23-2 1500

Just returned from dropping Josh off at RPI. On the way home, Tyler became a bit sad... so did I until I realized the sadness was due to Josh's roommate bringing a new 42" Plasma TV to the dorm room. The fact is, we will all miss having Josh around, But this is the way life should work. Time, and children march on. Ty is doing well, we have our meeting at the High School tomorrow AM and Ty goes to therapy in the afternoon.


“Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.”
-Dave Mustaine

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August 23-1 0650

Tyler slept over Nic's house with a few buddies. I'm going to pick him up soon, hope he got some sleep. Then Linda, Ty, Josh, and I are off to Rennselaer to deposit Josh (I wonder if he slept at all last night). Life moves on, whether you're ready for it or not. There's much excitement and some apprehension in the air on every one's part.

"Life moves pretty fast, if you're not paying attention, you might miss something."
-Ferris Beuler's Day Off.

P.S.

We are about to cross the 90,000 page view number. Thanks again for the continued support.

August 22-3 1820

Tyler had an appointment with his family MD. He cut out Ty's anti reflux med, and said he had ingrown toe nails (big toes), ouch. He has to quit cutting his toe nails with an axe. Otherwise, Tyler is doing well. Nic has invited Ty for an overnight with some other buddies. We'll pick him up tomorrow AM, and all of us are going to RPI to drop Josh off to begin his Freshman year. This has been quite the year.

“I find that the more willing I am to be grateful for the small things in life, the bigger stuff just seems to show up from unexpected sources, and I am constantly looking forward to each day with all the surprises that keep coming my way!”
-Louise L. Hay

August 22-2 1100

The guys help setup.

Alls well say's Tyler.

Alls well says Josh (must be genetic).

Tyler in his natural habitat... tied to the computer.

I had thought we forgot the camera to record Ty's party. Thanks to Ty remembering what I forgot, we have some pictures. There will be more to follow.

"Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."
-Psalm 30:5

August 22-1 0800

In the example of our Lord, I took the 7th day off. The first since we started. The welcome home party was a resounding success. There were about 150 attendees, mostly Ty's classmates. There was food thanks Ted, and our dynamic chefs, Troy, Mary and Bob. Frank Luca brought a pile of pizzas from NYPD (New York Pizza Delivery). Also, a huge thank you to all the folks who brought various desserts and snacks, we are eternally grate full to all . Tyler had a glorious time, he looked like he was running for office. He had the chance to reconnect with his classmates, and see for himself all the amount of support he has from his friends.

August 20-2 1120

Things are falling in place for the welcome home Tyler party tonight. This community is extraordinary. Thanks to many donations we're going to have quite the raffle. Tyler , Josh and I are going to put up the sign in front of the church, and then have lunch. Hope to see you all there tonight.

Party:
6-9 P.M.
South Congregational Church
242 Salmon Brook St.
Granby, CT


Love to faults is always blind, always is to joy inclined. Lawless, winged, and unconfined, and breaks all chains from every mind.
-William Shakespeare

August 20-1 0730

Tyler, Hillary and Josh had a fun visit yesterday evening, card playing, and lots of laughing. Tyler and Hillary finished the "Welcome Home" sign for me (Picasso is rolling over in his grave). After a restful night for all, it's time to start running around and putting the final touches on tonight's festivities. Tyler is looking forward to seeing all his "peeps".

We are formed and molded by our thoughts. Those whose minds are shaped by selfless thoughts give joy when they speak or act. Joy follows them like a shadow that never leaves them.
-Buddha

August 19-2 1500

I just got back from getting the T-shirts for Ty's party tomorrow night (8/20, 6-9, South Congregational Church, Granby Center). Steve (Bruce's partner at Fatty's Skis and Boards, Rt 44 Canton) did an awesome job, they're hysterical and look great. The food is all set thanks to help from Ted S. and Price Chopper Grocery Store. Tyler got back from the beach, and like the Energizer Bunny, he's still going. Hillary is coming by to visit, and I'm doing the sign for the party. If anyone wants to help out, feel free to call me at home. Thanks.

P.S.
If you can, bring a dessert.

August 19-1 0620

Up and at 'em early. Tyler and I are going to thank the big guy at synagogue for delivering him from the edge. Ty's psyched, not only does he get to voice his feelings to G-d in temple, on Fridays they serve breakfast.

"I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all."
-Ecclesiastes 9:11

August 18-2 1820

We're taking it easy tonight. Tyler and I are going to Minyan (morning prayer service) tomorrow. Then Ty is going with Linda to the beach.

August 18-1 1330

OK, we got lots to cover so pay attention. The welcome home party for Tyler is this Saturday 8/20 from 6-9 at the South Congregational Church on Salmon Brook Rd. in the center of Granby. Reverend Moon and his congregants have been unbelievably accommodating and supportive, allowing us the use of the church's back field, parking lot, and facilities. There will be food, soda, side dishes, and music. also, there will be special "Welcome home Tyler" T-shirts on sale to support the Tyler rehab fund. We would love to see all of you there. We know this is short notice, sorry, get over it, sometimes life pitches you a curve ball... just hit it. Oh yeah, Ty is doing great, lovin' being home and looking forward to the party.

P.S.
If you can bring some chips, or a dessert, great, if not, just be there.

August 17-3 1620

We had a great time with Nate, Russel, and Josh swimming in the Hayes Farm Pool. It was great to see Ty having fun with everyone, splashing around and laughing. Now Tyler and I are going to rest, and then make dinner.

August 17-2 1300

Tyler is doing well, still occasionally combating the reality of his situation. He said "even though I was never much for running, I sure would like to do that again". Otherwise Ty is resolved to doing whatever is necessary to win. Like all of us, he wishes this horrible episode of his life would be over so he could move on. We went on a few errands today, now it's rest time. Tyler and Josh are into a video adventure game TF2, The actions and motion are helping his fine motor skills (go figure).

August 17-1 0900

Yesterday was a busy day. Tyler had an extensive series of neurological tests, and did very well on all of them. These were designed to help place Ty in the appropriate therapy. He starts next week, going 2 days a week for about 3 hours. All of us are loving having him home.

“Joy lies in the fight, in the attempt, in the suffering involved, not in the victory itself”
Mahatma Gandhi

August 16-1 0750

I left the house with both boys sound asleep, Diva at the foot of Josh's bed and Capone laying next to Ty with his head on Tyler's tummy. The house is starting to feel "right" again. Linda will be giving Ty a ride to Grammy's to hang around for a while. Then Grammy is driving Tyler to his evaluation, and I'm picking him up on my way home from classes. We will learn Ty's future schedule after this evaluation, and work to blend it with the start of school.

August 15-3 1800

A restful afternoon, and no one is hungry for dinner (go figure). It is a special feeling watching both my boys play video together, speaking in silly accents, and laughing. It may seem strange to say, but we have so much to be thankful for. Tyler is a bit disappointed at not really having a Summer break, but he seems ready to tackle the latest phase of his therapy and recovery tomorrow.

I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.
- G. K. Chesterton

August 15-2 1500

A big day out. Grammy treated everyone to an all you can eat sushi/oriental buffet. Then we went clothes shopping for school. Both boys made out like bandits. Now we're all basking in food stupors.

August 15-1 0800

A lazy, rainy day, everyone is still in bed. Today will be one of a few visitors, and rest. Last night we had a lovely dinner and fun conversation with Grammy, Marty, and best friend Mimi.

August 14-3 1730

From the horses mouth:
I'm enjoying being home and visiting my friends and family. We are at Grammy's slowly starving waiting on the lasagna. I've started wearing the bear claw around my neck given to me by Lakota healer, Larry Fiddler. My next chapter of physical therapy begins this Tuesday with a clinical evaluation. That's about all for now, thanks for all the support.

Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can?
-Sun Tsu

PS

Two of Tyler's biggest fans, Jill and Kasey. He loves hugging pretty ladies... and they love hugging him.

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August 14-2 1300

Ty just got back from a therapeutic massage from his Mom, and scarfed down 3 hot dogs for lunch. We're planning on a quiet afternoon, then dinner at Grammy's and possibly a sleepover for Tyler at Nic's house. We need to hire a social secretary for Ty, he's quite the item.

Moderation. Small helpings. Sample a little bit of everything. These are the secrets of happiness and good health.
- Julia Child

August 14-1 0900

After visitors, and visiting, and dinner at his Mom's place, Tyler came home very tired, but happy. This morning he couldn't wait for breakfast, so he made coffee and had left over beef stew. Now Ty is listening to my old Pink Floyd vinyl albums on the stereo (he loves the nostalgic way it sounds). Plans are in a state of flux today, but regardless we are going to Grammy and Marty's for dinner.

“Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.”
-Unknown

August 13-2 1600

Busy, busy, day... but fun. Tyler had several visitors, and even went on a short road trip with friends to pick up a video game. The gang is here playing, and Tyler is waiting for his Mom to pick him up for dinner around 5:00. He will sleep well tonight.

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I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

I can no other answer make, but, thanks, and thanks.
-William Shakespeare

August 13-1 0730

Jackie, one of the great folks that kept after Tyler.

Brothers forever, grins all around.

We just had a nice breakfast, and are relaxing, sorting out the plans for the day. I'm sure there will be visiting and visitations in the mix. Later, Tyler is going to his Mom's for dinner. He looks great, and says he feels fine.

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.

-Thornton Wilder

August 12-4 2100

Ty is happy to be home (no kidding, huh). We've had a nice relaxing evening to get settled in and acclimated to home. Tyler is getting evaluated at the Mt. Sinai/St. Frances outpatient therapy group on Tuesday afternoon to determine which program best suits his situation. This is a source of mild frustration, he feels cheated out of his Summer, but understands the necessity of continuing with therapy.

August 12-3 1530

Yahoooooo!!! Tyler's home and getting settled. He looks great and is walking without his cane. First stop was Cumberland Farms for a free Chill Zone drink. Now it's rest and computer games with Josh.

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.

-John F. Kennedy

August 12-2 1125

Ty is having his last lunch at Traurig. The excitement builds.
2 hours, 35 minutes......... and counting.

We will gain the inevitable triumph, so help us G-d.
-Winston Churchill

August 12-1 0710

They say Tyler has got a Cheshire cat grin pasted on his face at the prospect of going home. Josh and I are going down there a bit early to help pack him up and get final instructions. So many prayers have been answered, yet so many prayers yet to go.
6 hours, 45 minutes until the breakout.

We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world.
-Helen Keller (1880 - 1968)

August 11-5 1745

Ty sounds great, he is jazzed to come home. After a meal of hot dogs and macaroni and cheese, he's ready to tackle the mall this evening. It's great to hear the enthusiasm in his voice.
20 hours, 15 minutes until we break Ty out of the big house.


“Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though t'were his own.”
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

August 11-4 1500

I spoke with Ty a little while ago, he sounds dynamic and ready to move on. According to him, getting the sutures removed was no big deal. Ty is just happy to get his head completely wet now. Rarely do we ever have the chance to derive tremendous inspiration and faith from someone close. I have gained far more strength from Tyler than he has from me. I am proud and in awe of his fortitude and wondrous soul.
22 hours 49 minutes until Tyler's discharge.

Blessed are those that can give without remembering and receive without forgetting.
-Author Unknown

August 11-3 1110

Since Ty was in the main building for PT when his appointment rolled around to get his sutures removed, he simply marched himself over to the outpatient clinic and had the nurse remove the stitches. When he arrived at Traurig, the CNA told Ty she was ready to take him for the appointment, Tyler said he had already taken care of it. He looks great and is smiling ear to ear.

August 11-2 0740

I Finally got a chance to speak with Tyler in person... he's a very busy man. Ty's a little nervous about getting the stitches out, but far more excited about his further healing. He says he feels good, and is psyched for his last full day away from home.
1 day, 6 hours, 15 minutes until discharge.

August 11-1 0600

Tyler is fine with the fact, none of us can be there while he gets his sutures removed this morning. He is an incredibly brave young man. I always told Tyler he possessed much more inner strength than he ever gave himself credit for having. The last few months proves this with impunity. 1 day, 7 hours, 50 minutes until Ty is discharged.

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.
-Thornton Wilder

August 10-3 2000

Tyler and company had a busy night. After a delicious meal of chili and zuchini bread (made by Tyler), The gang went to a car show, and then got icecream. Needless to say Ty is tired but looking forward to getting his stitches removed tomorrow morning (11:00).

A merry heart doeth good like medicine.
- Proverbs 17:22

August 10-2 1300

Tyler looks great, I found him walking back to the Traurig House unaccompanied. He doesn't need aid to walk, only his cane. The gang is ordering Chinese food and Pizza for lunch, and Ty is making chili for dinner, great eats. Tyler will be discharged on Friday in 1 day 23 hours 13 minutes.

I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.
--John 16:22

August 10-1 0830

Tyler and the gang went to the movies last night and saw Friends With Benefits. The staff had to get my permission for him to see it because he's a minor. Ty has been the youngest person in every hospital and ward he's been assigned. It's probably a good thing we weren't exposed to any very young patients of this sort. Tyler's case is tragic enough. Tomorrow all the stitches come out, and he's still scheduled to be discharged on Friday. We are counting the seconds.

These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.
-John 15:11

August 9-2 1300

Tyler sounds a little tired, it seems all the therapists are getting their last shots at him this week. Otherwise all is well.

Everything's a circle. We're each responsible for our own actions. It will come back.
-Betty Lavendure
Ojibway Nation

August 9-1 0800

Tyler is busy eating breakfast and getting ready for the myriad of therapies which make his day. He's approaching them with a new zeal, with the shining lantern of home looming within reach on the horizon. As I'm writing this, I have been craving the song "So glad we made it" by The Spencer Davis Group, this was Ty's Bar Mitzvah song. It just came on the radio....weird but appropriate. We all know there's a long road ahead, but this is a huge hurdle, and as proud of Tyler as we are for his unbelievable attitude and perseverance, he would be the first to admit he couldn't have done it without all the love and support from all his "peeps". Many Thanks to all.

We are all creators, we breathe. To speak is to form breath and to amke manifest sound into the world. As I write, I createmyself again and again. Re-create and breathe. And I see that I am not one voice, but many; all colors, all sounds, all fears, all loves.
-Joy Harjo
The Creek Nation